@Milano: That sucks! Keep working on your arse affirmation and turn it into key chain...I will buy one.
Also you raise an interesting question, why do they continue to reach out?
Ariseagain says: A reaction is what he wants because he might need you as a backup someday. I’m not saying he’s thinking this all through...its just self-preservation.
I wonder what other reasons they reach out when they have seemingly moved on.
And on the topic of my drinking did no harm BS...my wife used to say that her drinking never impacted our daughter...what a load.
Peace