Originally Posted by
hummingbird358 
Is that shaming?
This is just my opinion but yes (in it's truest form).
"to cause to feel shame"
It's about intent. I see that statement as an attempt to make him feel shame for asking for the concert money.
Now, of course it's up to you if you want him to feel shame. Will he? Does someone who asks for money to get to a concert when he could be paying back some of the $4500.00 feel shame about it?
I'm thinking not. It seems like this may be another attempt to control the uncontrollable hummingbird?