Originally Posted by Meadow123
I should have never gone back to him. I pity him and i thought i could save him.
Said as gently as possible, you aren't that strong. No one is.
He can only save himself -- if that is his decision. He may be perfectly "content" to live the way he's been living for the rest of his life.
I won't tell you what you should do. But I will ask you if this is the kind of life you want for you and your son? If not, what do you think you can do to make your life the one you want...remembering that you can't count on this man to make it that way, you can only count on yourself?