my point was that he makes a big deal about this trip and you were asked why then bother to take him along?
Because “it’s an obligation”. Translation: I’ll look bad to your family if I don’t go.
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Originally Posted by trailmix View Post
If he hates it and you guys love it, why is he going?
he can feel whatever he feels at any time and any place. so what if he thinks your family thinks any certain thing? has he shown any concern about how you or the chidren feel?
let him be a big boy and feel however he wants and you and the kids GO and do something without dragging the angry elehant with you. surely he doesn't have that much control vou, does he?