Thank you Aries and others who may have chimed in. Aries, thanks to learning so much about codependency at this forum, also learning about Narcissism at others, i have no problem going NC again. I really miss my nephew but he’s pretty non-verbal and I don’t think misses me much so there’s that. Hopefully he can have some independence from his parents in his adult life that affords me opportunities to spend time with him without them.