It is never too late as long as we are breathing. Unfortunately, time for which we have no control is what it takes to heal old wounds. We can't rush or force things to happen. All we can do is the next right thing and time will do the rest. It is best for me no to bang my head and force things to happen where I can't, but instead to focus on the things i can do today. No matter how bad things appear we have to look for joy in the things we can find and appreciate life for what it is. One thing for sure I have found after many years of experience is that a drink NEVER helped anything for ME.