Hi loopylou
it took a while for some relationships in my life to be mended. Its hard to accept but we can't set the timetable for someone elses forgiveness.
Like Anna said, the best thing we can do is keep doing the next right thing - stay sober, become the people we want to be and try to be patient in mending fences and relationships.
I hope the next 4 months will see more healing for you and your loved ones
D