Originally Posted by
NoAnotherRound 
PS Just been talking to a friend and they told me that in Japan and Korea it is known that when a person is drunk that is who they really are!
This has really spun me around 380 degrees!
The whole thing is a bit like narcissism in that the narc can keep the charm up for only so long and the alcoholic can keep it up only while sober! So much makes sense now. I wish I had known this ages ago.
On the other hand, many people (alcoholics included) are nicer when drunk! It works both ways.
Regardless, they are both, the good, the bad, the sober-ish the drunk, one and the same person. There is no use separating them?