Originally Posted by
biminiblue 
I think, like I said in February on this thread - separation is a very good idea.
You don't have to decide about Forever right now. Just Peaceful Home.
If she and you both have some miraculous insight and recovery from all this, you can get back together. You've spent many months in misery. I think you deserve so much better and you can't fix this right now - it's just going to be more of the same.
It can’t be more of the same. A violation means jail, and I’m certain that is a consequence she will do everything to avoid. We deserve a lot better, as does she. No one deserves to live this way. Either side of addiction.