Thanks, Anvil. Like I posted above (probably at the same time you posted, lol) was more in terms of helping him along with his family to find a very good rehab/program, as he's never been the time to research anything.
I am seriously thinking about taking a vacation soon, I could really use some time away from this place. I'm reaching out to old friends I've lost because of this addictive relationship, making plans to go out and keep busy. I deserve that, especially since he's had two "vacations" (benders) now on my dime. It makes me insanely mad that he's enjoying himself! The last time we talked he was snacking, playing video games, watching movies, going fishing...and of course drugging it up. I deserve to be happy, too, and that's just what I'm going to do.