[QUOTE=Caprice6;7177040]If you know you have a problem, it would be a good idea to help yourself as well, you can do it together.
I think it's best you do talk about it with her, and if you want to truly stop too, then all the better.
Do you want to continue drinking?
I would be lying if I said there isn't a part of me that wishes to continue drinking but I know that it is messing me up. As someone who deals with depression and anxiety it goes a little something like this ..drink for a while and hit a wall with full on symptoms. Stop for a while and begin to feel better. Rinse and repeat.
Whatever the case, bring it up , cuz hiding it isn't gonna help in any way.
There are people in my recovery program whose goals are only to cut down. Ultimately, the best thing you can do for yourself/yourselves, is to (eventually) quit.
You asked for advice, and I enthusiastically recommend bringing the topic up with her. It doesn't matter if you drink less or more, it's not a competition, you're a team.[/QUOTE
Ty Caprice for the thoughtful response.