Originally Posted by
Scramm 
I am not what one would call a normal drinker. I struggle at times with it but not to the magnitude she does so in her eyes I am OK. Either way, I don't see how continuing to drink could be anything but harmful to her recovery process.
If you know you have a problem, it would be a good idea to help yourself as well, you can do it together.
I think it's best you do talk about it with her, and if you want to truly stop too, then all the better.
Do you want to continue drinking?
Whatever the case, bring it up , cuz hiding it isn't gonna help in any way.
There are people in my recovery program whose goals are only to cut down. Ultimately, the best thing you can do for yourself/yourselves, is to (eventually) quit.
You asked for advice, and I enthusiastically recommend bringing the topic up with her. It doesn't matter if you drink less or more, it's not a competition, you're a team.