Originally Posted by
thegrasshopper 
My mother was always very submissive to my father and she would do anything to please him, not that he would appreciate it,, everything revolved around him and he was the most important person in the house. I wonder if that has anything to do with fact that I have gotten into this whole mess in the first place and can't seem to be able to get out
Absolutely yes.
We are all a product of our environment. We live what we know, until we know better, and then we do better. I'm living proof of that.