brooke - welcome. please read the stickys on this section and also read as many threads as you can. you will find that just because one goes to rehab doesn't mean that he will succeed in staying sober. i agree with whoever posted to give yourself this time away from him to do some reflection. it sounds if you've already seen some of the devestating chaos that being involved in a relationship with an active alcoholic can bring. is this what you want for yourself? i was married to my husband for almost 15 years, saw first hand how the disease progresses and saw many attempts at getting sober. he passed away about 3 months ago from direct results of the addiction. prayers to you that you think about YOU first and how you want to live the rest of your life!