Originally Posted by
Action 
You are a lucky one, you haven't been together for twenty years with kids and property together. You haven't waisted years of your life in misery kicking yourself for not getting out ten years ago or in the first place when you first saw it. For me it was hard to admit that I let the last two years pass before we split up. I never gets better it only gets worse. Like you said he did you a favor, run with it.
Action
thank you for this. I am sorry that it was the case for you, and it’s great that you managed to get out eventually. I can only imagine the effort you had to put into that. Well done. You are strong.