Hello, PressmetilIhurt
I tried probably six sponsors until I found one who was serious about the program. The six women I chose talked good in meetings, but when it came to taking me through the steps, they couldn't because they had not worked the steps themselves.
Maybe pray to your Higher Power and ask that the right person be put in your life. That's what I did.
Drunk-a-logs and chatting do not heal the disease of alcoholism.
Good luck in finding the right one for you.