do no appreciate the snarky "less than 5 years right? comment? as if i therefore don't know my @ss from a hole in the ground. actually i have over 12 years clean now, thanks very much.
i'm sorry YOUR wife is one of THOSE addicts who rips and tears thru lives without a care, and cheats and all that other stuff. but do NOT then cast that aspersion on every other human who happens to become addicted. it's insulting and pompous...........imho.
signing off on this thread.