I have many resentment which is why I can’t do a step 4. My ex husband kept locking me up in psych wards.. It’s s been 6 years now since I stopped seeing the kids he’s leaving me alone. My second ex wanted to chain me up and kept ratttling the chain. I had to go to aashelter for 2 months. My third is dead.No way am I making amends to these sickos. Hope my story helps you.