Seems like your anger and resentment continues to grow and her condition deteriorates--what kind of environment is this for kids?
This can scar them for life--I grew up with an addicted alcoholic mother and didn't have a choice to get away. Neither do you kids unless you make the tough choices and act.
So sorry for what you have gone through Beachn--addiction destroys lives not only of the addict, but families suffer so much as well.