Originally Posted by
Katerina1072 This back and forth crap is making me lose my mind. I just wish he'd stop claiming to care about me and calling to tell me I'm the love of his life, etc. I hate the mind games. I never know if it's a moment of clarity when he's speaking to me or what. And it's killing me.
Originally Posted by
Katerina1072 I just cannot believe that he cannot SEE why this has been so hard, especially with the mind games. He knows it's cruel and heartless and I although I understand addiction being a disease I guess I will never understand how an individual can see someone being so broken and just not care. It just really hurts.
I just read this in another thread and it fits with this discussion:
Originally Posted by
Troubledone "Work your own recovery with as much dedication and commitment as you wish your addict would work theirs."