Old 04-10-2019, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Katerina1072 View Post
I guess however the hard part about boundaries is sticking to them, and being willing to remove the problem from the home if they should disrespect them. At least that's what I'm assuming is usually the penalty when someone crosses your boundaries?
Try not to view it as a penalty for whomever crossed your boundary. Think of it as a safety measure you take for yourself, for your physical and mental health.

What actions you take to keep your self safe depend on what the boundary is, and what you have decided you will do if/when that boundary gets crossed.

A boundary can be something as simple as, "If I am made to feel unsafe or uncomfortable in my own home I will leave the room or the house"

Do you own the house you live in? Rent? Whose names are on the title/lease?
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