That’s rough, but a great testament to your fortitude going into recovery. Rather than looking at this as a test, maybe it’s a blessing that it came AFTER you made the wise decision to sober up. There would never be a good time, but it sure sounds like now is better than 20 days ago

Best of luck, though. We’re all here for you as much as we can be and it’s great that you’re there for your wife fully in a way maybe you wouldn’t have been while drinking.