In my opinion those are obnoxious behaviors. I dont think its anything but normal to feel frustrated by these behaviors. do you go to alanon? my AH does most of these but also drops things...mostly beer spilling it everywhere constantly. heavily spurs words (when the slurring started that was my signal to leave the room lol). Strange behavior regarding the dog (wanting to take him out without a leash or have him "play with the neighbor's cat" while knowing he doesnt get along with other animals). Causing so much trouble, being unreasonable and mean to my teenager. I'm sorry I let it go so long, but I also had a rough hand dealt. I forgive myself and move forward with love and support to my kid and my animals 🖤