JN - not sure where you are with your court but just so you know. Your victim's statement is about you. Not your children, your family or any other person. Just you. That is why I cut and pasted your (YOUR) own remarks. You can ask the other members of your family to write their own. You can NOT tell the judge how other people feel in a victims statement. Leave that up to the other victims.
Wishing you the best when you get to trial. Stay strong or what you want!