Validated by "outsiders"
I know exactly what you mean. I just told my spouse yesterday that I go out in the world and people like me and compliment me and think I am funny and pleasant. I get nothing at home, no human touch, no validation, nothing. I feel so taken for granted, but I know that if he weren't drinking it would be better.....doesn't make it any easier......I am only 42...I'm not ready to give up on living. I go to Al-Anon, I talk to my Minister, my family. My gut says to leave, but it would kill him faster than the alcohol.. I'm ranting now....sorry.