Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
That kind of rejection will tell him I'm strong, not as weak as he thought and no longer willing to be so codependent.
i can tell you almost assuredly he didn't put anywhere near that much thought into the fact you said no. he simply went on to the next option. you said no. just like others have. he's used to it.
as long as you keep thinking you know what he is thinking, you are allowing him to rent space in your head. HE is not doing anything to you, except not contacting you...........and as i suggested earlier, methinks that might be the real problem here.
No he hasn't put that much thought into it, I know, I get it. It was just NEXT.
No he is not doing anything to me, but he did when he called in to my house with suitcases, the aftermath yes is my stuff but his breaking MY No Contact has affected me. I am the one not contacting him, he gave me his number said to message him but I won't.