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Old 03-06-2019, 06:59 PM
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MindfulMan
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Originally Posted by JeffreyAK View Post
Everyone rolls in different ways, but my own personal experience, relevant to at least just me, after 8+ years sober is, I was happier once I moved out of early recovery mode and started spending more time and energy on living life now, rather than staying stuck in the past. I was pretty much recovered, past-tense, after 2-3 years, so maintaining that newcomer passion for recovery seemed misplaced and increasingly irrelevant to what my right-now life was like. I still keep a foot in recovery world, go to a couple meetings a year, maintain a website, post here, etc., but it's a little foot to keep me from forgetting where I was, and to hopefully give a little back to the community. The rest of the time, I'm just another guy who happens to not drink alcohol, and doesn't spend any energy on it.
What he said (as well as what I said above).
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