Originally Posted by
Angel65 
PhoenixJ, thank you for your candor. I know what you say is true and right, but I have such a hard time removing myself from the situation when i see him suffer.
Ugh I so get that. I went no contact with my qualifier. It was the only way for me. If we would have had any contact at that time, I would have gone running right back. I was like that.
My XABF did eventually get sober but his sobriety had nothing to do with me. He did it in his own way in his own time. I was long gone by then.
Big hug to you Angel. What you are going through is completely horrid.
