Originally Posted by Leelee168

You need to cut contact with him. Whether or not he is "still completely into me" is irrelevant if he can barely commit to going sledding. He was honest with you a long time ago that he is an A. He's doing what he is capable of and it's not much, mostly seeking attention. I'm sorry for the tough love. You want a different ending to the story--I get that--but it's not possible for him to give you what you want.