Originally Posted by
Suzieq17 
My post is for other Scapegoats—how do you accept your role and manage it in a healthy way? .
First of all, congratulations on your sobriety!!!!
In answer to your question, I decided 2-1/2 years ago that I was DONE with that role. I went no contact with the two sisters I have left and moved on with life.
They have confirmed, in many ways since, that I made the correct decision.