Hello Reflecting, so glad you are here. My story is similar to yours--husband who drank under the radar, much more than he let on for years...until finally it was undeniably out of his control. I agree that you can likely find a free consultation with an attorney. I had one yesterday here in the U.S., and she knew of many options and some included simply sharing what I'd learned with my husband--which could or could not be a wake up call for him. There are more options than I'd thought. Keep posting!