Im looking into my legal options to protect myself and the kids,
Very smart move!
but I miss my wife and keep hoping she will realize all that she is destroying and fight for her life.
Of course you do, we all hope they will “realize” all that they destroy but we can’t sit around or expose children to all that they do destroy while we are hoping they will suddenly wake up and change back into or become the person we think they can be. Alcohol changes people, removing that alcohol doesn’t change them into who we want them to be or who we think they can be or even who they used to be.
It wasn’t rehab it was a 30 day break from reality that allowed her to bitch about everyone that did anything wrong and blame them for her poor choices.
She’s not ready to give it up. The big question is, are you really ready to?