Also, I think as an alcoholic I had NO healthy boundaries. I don't know, has not-a-date had the time to prove his worth yet? I wouldn't share these types of vulnerable things with someone I didn't know pretty well. I mean, you can put me on ignore if I say something weird. This guy is in your life.
Of course, back in the day I'd blurt everything and then be crushed when people who were relative strangers didn't treat me with kid gloves. I don't know why I told them and conversely I don't know why I let their opinions bother me.
Some people get to know a few things. Few people get to know a lot of things. Almost no one gets to know some things...like maybe a best friend or a therapist.
Just call me over-sharer.
