Originally Posted by Wamama48

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Please take this not as a criticism, but as me pointing something out that maybe you don't see. You said this.....
"I struggle with the idea he’s being abusive because he talks so much about how his family are everything to him, we are his world etc etc he gets very misty eyed and soppy when he’s full to brim with red wine." He talks a lot about how his family is his world. He TALKS about that. But does he show that by his actions?