Hey Doris, I'm a music freak myself, and understand how it can influence and affect mood, how lyrics can resonate and seem to fit our personal lives, how all encompassing it can feel.
Since we're all mentioning music selections, I'm going to second Fearless and mention a totally different genre that totally transports me: ambient "meditation" music has no lyrics to relate to, or trigger me, or bring back specific memories of the old days. Anything by Liquid Mind or Deuter makes me breathe deeper, slows my thoughts, encourages me to close my eyes and just "be." You might find it therapeutic (or it might make you roll your eyes and laugh!) Wishing you some peace of mind...Arp