Originally Posted by
Tetrax 
How do I never learn???
By never trying something different from your 'norm'.
My advice= get some sleep then text your friend back(appologize if needed for being 'short') and attend a meeting with an open mind with her. I'm not an AA'er,nor a religious person,but have been to several meetings(court ordered) and credit AA and here for my sobriety( I had a couple therapy visits in there too). NO ONE ever learns anything new by doing the same damn thing all of the time.