I am a female adult child of alcoholic parents. I am a recovered alcoholic myself. I have baggage, and lots of it!. I have been with an incredible man for a year, he is patient, and understanding of my issues as an adult child. He listens, he holds me when I cry, and supports me in every way. I know it must be diffucult for him to deal with my "ghosts" at times, but I truly believe is someone loves another person.........REALLY loves another person, he or she will find the courage an tools needed to be with an ACOAP. It may be a tough road, dear, only you can choose if you really can and want to ride over the bumps.