Just an FYI....it 100% depends on the judge if you are able to stay in the house or not. Where I live, unless physical abuse is an issue, the family court says no one has to leave until the divorce is final. To the point one local judge just told someone I know to put duck tape down the center of each room and pick a side.
Family courts have a huge discretion in this, as they do all things, and most times it's the opinion of the judge. The good news is that any local attorney you speak to will know one way or the other.
I am only throwing this out there as many people assume the courts will do this very easily and it's not always the case.
Sending huge hugs.