Well tonight he has had a drink in front of me...normally waits until lm in bed. I didnt flinch. I could smell the strength of the jack d and coke from across the room. He went for another just as l went to bed. Hes entitled...its a year tomorrow since he saw his daughter and also her birthday as well. To my knowledge he has not sent a card or cash transfusion to her bank. Although l am aware of the circumstances it is none of my concern (any of it) 🙂