Hi Suki, l do feel different. I know the moment l came upstairs to bed tonight he went straight to get a drink...l heard the familiar noises!! A few weeks ago it would be chewing away at me..l would be upset and pondering what l could do to help etc.
Now l just snuggle into bed, put a film on my ipad or read an article or listen to a guided meditation or come on SR for a catch up as l am tonight. I no longer concern myself about matters that are out of my hands. I prefer to focus on things l CAN do!