Originally Posted by
Awal 
I wasnt in any way comparing a bar of chocolate to Alcohol only in the way that it might be something l might crave occasionally. Chocolate isnt life changing and it isnt dangerous to drive after eating! My fundamental point is l wouldnt like to be controlled in any way so why should l try to impose control on another.
Driving can be dangerous if the chocolate has melted on to your hand!
j/k
I totally get what you mean Awal and agree with you completely.
It's not an easy concept to apply, it's not the way most have been brought up or witnessed in relationships. I think in healthy relationships there is a good intertwining that goes on that can't exist in a relationship with an alcoholic.