Oh gosh. My XAH is/was a huge con man. I look back and am disgusted that I was so blind, or maybe I chose to be after a time b/c facing it was too hard. Either way, he is a con. My kids see it too, and it has made them very weary of the men in their lives. My DD just said to me the other day that she is never having children as she does not want them to go through the same pain she has. Tragic. Simply tragic.
Huge hugs and lots of support friend!