MCE saint, you are the one,still, trying to hold on to this relationship...not her. She's doing 'whatever' and you're left to pick up whatever she leaves in her 'wake' and seem to be trying to,still,piece those together and 'make it work". You two are on complete opposite spectrums here. It's on you to do what you do,bud.. What do YOU feel would be in your and your kids best interest be here? Not her's..