Hi FY, glad you found the friends and family forum! I actually replied in your other thread but just wanted to say hi and I hope you will read around this side of the forums, lots of wisdom in those threads.
Yes, you don't "make" him drink, oh if it was only that easy if anyone had the power to make a drinker drink or not drink, just doesn't happen.
You didn't Cause it, can't Cure it and can't Control it.