Thanks everyone. Hopefully he will be supportive. When it comes to my feelings I am a bit of a closed book, so I wouldn't announce all my hopes and fears before annoucing I want to be sober. That isn't in my nature to be honest. But hopefully people will just accept that i'm not up for having a drink! God you wouldn't think it was such a chore to simply not want to drink something that makes you a depressed wreck!