Originally Posted by
Highercall 
What is the solution to getting sober and preventing relapse PLEASE tell me?
You.
Once you've accepted that, start taking some of the advise being given to you by the members here.
Don't ignore the things said that bother you the most, they're probably the most important.
Members respond because they want to see you succeed. if they didn't care, your threads would have only 1 post.
It's time to do something different, don't you think?