Originally Posted by
Highercall 
What is the solution to getting sober and preventing relapse PLEASE tell me?
The solution is not drinking alcohol. It's also actively accepting the fact that you cannot drink alcohol, and then making a plan so you don't.
I can tell you that the solution is not posting here and ignoring advice that's repeatedly given to you. It's also not posting here once after a binge and then disappearing until your next binge.
It's a choice HC - and a choice only you can make. Simple - just not easy.