I amended your title to make clear you're referring to the song.
Kurt was a great musical talent but not so much a great life role model.
He and I were born in the same year and as I get older I always think he missed out on a lot of the good stuff if only he could have gotten things together.
You have that chance too Owl. If you want out of the drinking and shame merry go round, you can stop, you can ask for help - you can change things.
I hope you decide to change your life today
Merry Christmas to you - and your dad too - there's an opportunity for change for everyone.
D