Hello and welcome.
The "Good time" stopped for me years before I was able to stop drinking.
All I was left with was a bad drinking problem that I no longer had any control over. I was a mess. Pretty uncool.
An alcoholic mess who was only able to make a living in show business where drinking is part of the culture.
I still managed to destroy everything else in my life.
You'll find a lot of support here. So keep reading and posting.
Do it for your kids. Do it for yourself. Do it for whatever it takes Sobriety is it's own reward.
And if your friends think it's uncool not to drink, I would find some new friends.
Best to you and stick around.