Originally Posted by Awal

l would hope surfbee doesnt sit alone every time her BF is drinking...but maybe finds a friend or family member to share the time with. Or maybe spends the time doing a hobby...or exercising...or listening to favourite music etc. It doesn't have to be doom when the A is on a bender...unless they are being violent then of course that's different. Take the good times and ignore the rest is perhaps the best approach.